Consuelo Vanderbilt’s Infamous Wedding Inspired The Third Season of The Gilded Age

By Madeleine Luckel

Chances are, you hadn’t heard of Consuelo Vanderbilt. Perhaps you know her family name, and maybe you are familiar with her distant descendant, Gloria Vanderbilt, the heiress, fashion designer, and socialite, who also was the subject of a very high-profile child custody case in the 1930s, or Gloria’s son, CNN anchor Anderson Cooper. But as season three of The Gilded Age showcased Gladys Russell and the Duke of Buckingham’s less-than-happy wedding that mirrored her own, Consuelo’s story is back in the spotlight.

 

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Let’s rewind to 1895, when Consuelo Vanderbilt was considered Gilded Age royalty. As the daughter of William Kissam Vanderbilt, Consuelo was worth an estimated $4 billion in today’s equivalent currency. But as an American, Consuelo wasn’t a part of the European aristocracy; there were no titles or tiaras in her world. Her mother, Alva Vanderbilt, was intent on changing that. (Let’s consider her the Kris Jenner of her day.)

At the turn of the century, many of America’s richest young women, known as “dollar princesses” married European aristocrats. It was a win-win situation for everyone involved as the practice guaranteed a title for the wives, while securing the necessary funds for the landed bachelors to revitalize their dwindling inherited fortunes. No other union typified this phenomenon more than that of Consuelo Vanderbilt and Charles Spencer-Churchill, a.k.a. the 9th Duke of Marlborough, and cousin to Winston Churchill, the future British Prime Minister.

Even though Consuelo had secured five proposals from other well to-do European bachelors, she and Spencer-Churchill ultimately became engaged in large part thanks to the machinations of Alva, who had decided the Duke was the best suitor for her daughter. Consuelo, however, was less than happy to be betrothed. It was rumored she was already secretly engaged to an American, Winthrop Rutherford, and only agreed to marry the Duke after her mother blamed Consuelo’s defiance on her declining health—which miraculously recovered in time for the wedding.

On November 6, 1895, massive crowds waited outside of New York City’s St. Thomas Church for a glimpse at the glamorous 18-year-old bride. It was reported that once Consuelo arrived (she was tardy) it looked as though she had been crying under her veil. For the ceremony, Consuelo wore a gown of cream satin with a five-foot long train that was trimmed with lace. She wore a veil, as well as a wreath of orange blossoms—which had become popular with British brides after Queen Victoria donned one for her wedding to Prince Albert. For her bouquet, Consuelo carried an enormous assortment of orchids, which had been sent from the groom’s Blenheim estate in England. (As one does when a dollar princess.)

The wedding ceremony, which granted her the title of Duchess of Marlborough, was followed by a reception at the bride’s family’s Upper East Side home. On that day, headlines read, “She Is Now a Duchess,” and “Thousands of Women Besiege the Young Woman’s Home and St. Thomas’s Church.” But in truth, this was the end of a long, press-heavy slog. Alva, the mother of the bride, had been leaking news about the wedding ever since her daughter’s engagement. Everything, including the bride’s reported gold underwear fastenings, had been covered.

 

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However, while Consuelo and the Duke’s arranged marriage ended in divorce—their union was annulled in 1926 after Alva finally conceded she had coerced Consuelo into the marriage. But don’t fret, she quickly found her love and happily married French industrialist Jacques Balsan and were together until his death in 1956.